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Are you telling yourself the RIGHT story?

Today it’s a bit of an unusual email.

 

But let’s dive right in…

 

Each of us is living a story… a narrative…

 

But most of us are UNAWARE of it.

 

This unawareness would have been fine… 

if it wasn’t affecting our life or business.

 

But more often than not… 

 

the story we tell ourselves changes our whole experience.

 

It can CHANGE how we show up.

 

Let’s take an example of that…

“That client never listens. He’s too arrogant.”

 

If I have this narrative in my mind…

 

Now I show up with the inner attitude of irritation and frustration.

 

And my great mind looks for the evidence to reconfirm my story… 

how this client never listens.

 

Either let go of the story. And see it as an ILLUSION. 

(There’s some spiritual aspect to that… we’ll discuss that some other day)

 

Or tell yourself a BETTER story that allows you to…

 

Show up with the energy and attitude… 

that you want to show up in… 

irrespective of who the client is. 

 

This would serve you and your coaching clients well.

 

That’s just 1 example.

 

Once you start becoming aware of this…

 

You will discover a lot of stories that you keep telling yourself about yourself, your parents, clients, business, market, people, world, and GOD.

 

“Okay all that is great… 

But how do I become more aware of the stories I’m telling myself?”

 

These 3 could become your starting points:

 

1.) Ask yourself…

 

Why aren’t you able to do a certain thing or achieve a certain goal?

 

Maybe what you’re going to tell yourself now aren’t all facts of physics.

 

These might be stories that you have told yourself for years.

 

And now you don’t even wanna question them anymore.

 

Lead with curiosity instead of defensiveness.

 

2.) Look at the situations where you experience heightened emotions.

 

Could start with anger or bitterness…

 

What story are you telling yourself about the situation or the other person?

 

3.) Read old stories… 

narratives… 

that have gripped the minds of millions of people for hundreds of years.

 

Are you reliving those stories without even knowing them?

 

I believe it’s useful to be aware of our own stories if… 

we want to lead ourselves and our people well.

 

That’s it for today.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, there’s 1 way I can help you:

 

Meaningful Momentum (MM) Program

 

It’s right for coaches who want to… 

 

Attract zero resistance clients every single week.

 

Add 10k – 50k profits every month while having the time of their lives.

 

Build a scalable and long-lasting biz that’s in alignment with who they are.

 

If that interests you, just book a short call with me below.

 

Take care.

 

Signing off…

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